
My Wicked, Wicked Ways
After reading Ana Maria Juarez and Stella Beatriz Kerl’s essay, “What is the Right (White) Way to be Sexual?,” I was relieved that someone had pointed what should have been obvious: Latina sexuality is neither repressed or oppressed as popular culture would have you believe. For ages, media have portrayed Latinas as either over sexualized vamps or virginal and religious. While media have created stereotypes of many groups of people, these images are particularly familiar to the public. The reality is Latina sexuality is dependent on how a woman was raised, her beliefs, and her self-perception. It isn’t always black and white (no pun intended).
Like the authors, I take issue with the perception that the ideal sexually liberated female portrayed in this instance by the American white woman is the “right” way to be sexual. They bring up a good example too: The writing of Sandra Cisneros. Cisneros, by all accounts, is a great writer and worthy of her inclusion in the American literature canon. However, I don’t agree with her interpretation of Latina sexuality and emulation of white models of sexuality. The authors bring up an excellent point:
“…Cisneros relies on ethnocentric, essentialized assumptions rather than examining Latina practices within their own context and on their own terms…Ironically, Cisneros exalts (the) medicalization of sexuality and the body, even as other scholars have begun to show how Western science and medicine have been used to create hierarchical sexual, gender, and racial identities.”
Sexuality shouldn’t be clinical. It should be something a woman owns, but on her own terms. Yes, conservative cultural and religious practices can inhibit understanding of sexuality, but whose to say the standard American model of sexuality is the one to follow? Sexuality really exists on a continuum, regardless of race or culture. A woman who is confident about her sexuality doesn’t always have to flaunt it because it is only a part of what makes her a beautiful human being. It is just another part of the many dimensions of a woman. Ultimately, if a woman chooses to “hide” in the bathroom stall to get dressed in a locker room, but she is still confident enough to portray her sexuality the way she is wants to and take control, than she is in a better position overall. This isn’t so much a race issue as it is an issue of attempting to place labels and define the feminist, which isn’t easy.
Tags: Ana Maria Juarez, feminism, Latin culture, Latina, Latina sexuality, religion, Sandra Cisneros, sexuality, Stella Beatriz Kerl